Introduction
In part 2 of his series on dating, Dr. Jim focuses on further practical questions for evaluating a potential spouse and delving into the critical topic of moral purity in relationships. He emphasizes seeking God's wisdom and honoring Him in all relational choices, recognizing the profound impact these decisions have on one's life.
Scripture Texts
1 Timothy 5:8; Hebrews 13:17; 2 Timothy 2:22; 2 Corinthians 6:14-18; Romans 13:14; Proverbs 23:7; 1 Thessalonians 4:1-7; Hebrews 13:4; and 1 Corinthians 7:1.
Main Points or Ideas
People should evaluate potential partners by seeing if they are diligent, show respect, honor authority, treat parents well, cause constant apologies, or compromise moral standards. Dating only born-again believers is crucial, avoiding the "unequally yoked" pitfall.
Moral purity is paramount, with a "physical progression chart" illustrating how intimacy naturally escalates, reserved for marriage.
Dr. Jim warns against "defrauding" (exciting passion that cannot be righteously fulfilled) and emphasizes avoiding isolated, private places.
Self-acceptance from God, not a partner, is foundational, alongside improving controllable traits like hygiene. Key dating standards include parental approval, clear personal boundaries, and adhering to curfews.
Conclusion
Dr. Jim comprehensively outlines spiritual and practical standards for healthy dating relationships, emphasizing the importance of character, purity, and God's design for marriage. He strongly warns against premarital sexual sin and unhealthy relationship patterns, instead urging students to set clear biblical standards, seek counsel, and pursue purity until marriage.
God's way leads to the most fulfilling relationships and encourages students to apply these principles for a blessed life and marriage.
