In this episode, I had the immense pleasure of diving deep into the extraordinary journey of Wells Jones, a man who, as I playfully suggested, seems to have lived several lives already. From the moment he started sharing his story, I was captivated, and I know you will be too. Imagine jumping out of a plane over the South Pole, surviving the extreme conditions of Antarctica, and then walking into an acting school in New York City – that’s just a glimpse into Wells’s remarkable path.
Wells's incredible adaptability and courage were forged early. Born on an army base and growing up in a bustling household of six kids after losing his father at a young age, he shared a profound insight from his mother: "I think you can do this." This simple belief became a guiding principle, acting as a recurring "tap on the shoulder" throughout his life, akin to the famous Churchill quote he shares (0:08, 0:58:18). This philosophy of embracing opportunities, even when unprepared, truly resonated with me.
His decision to join the Navy was a quest for adventure, leading him to the breathtaking and brutal landscape of Antarctica as part of the Antarctic Parachute Rescue Team (0:20:59, 0:26:38). Wells vividly describes precision skydiving, crevasse rescues, and facing unimaginable conditions—like jumping from a C-130 into -59 degree Fahrenheit winds, a moment where he literally felt his hand freeze and thaw in 60 seconds (0:34:57). The raw struggle against nature and the reliance on primitive gear (0:37:04) offered powerful lessons in focus and responsibility.
From the sub-zero training grounds, Wells pivoted to the stage, embarking on a fascinating acting career (0:43:13). He shares how a tough instructor taught him to "stop thinking too much and just be yourself" (0:45:53)—a lesson in authenticity that profoundly impacted his approach to life and performance. This led him into directing high-profile productions at places like Lincoln Center and the Kennedy Center (0:54:30, 0:57:24), orchestrating grand events with legendary figures.
But the adventures didn't stop there. Wells recounts an audacious plan to trek through the Middle East, tracing T.E. Lawrence's path, a journey that involved 8 months of intense preparation, kidnap & ransom insurance, and an unwavering resolve even after hearing news of a hotel bombing (1:26:00, 1:27:48).
Today, Wells is at the forefront of a groundbreaking venture called Reflector (SolTech), a company that uses AI to connect us with loved ones who have passed on. Imagine having an AI-powered conversation with a departed family member, hearing their voice, and revisiting their stories and nuanced responses (0:14:13). This technology is truly pushing the boundaries of legacy and remembrance, making the abstract idea of an "online obituary" a deeply personal and interactive experience.
My biggest takeaway from speaking with Wells is the profound power of embracing "flow" (1:01:41)—not passively, but by fully engaging with each opportunity, learning from every challenge, and trusting that the right path will unfold. This episode is a testament to human resilience, curiosity, and the boundless possibilities that emerge when you say "yes" to life's taps on the shoulder. You won't want to miss a single moment of Wells's incredible story.
