In this engaging conversation, Scott Lin and Amy Bushnell explore various aspects of the swinging lifestyle, polyamory, and the adult industry. Amy shares her experiences as a newcomer to the lifestyle, her relationships with poly partners, and insights from her work in a sex-positive adult shop. The discussion also delves into the acceptance of transgender individuals in the LGBTQ+ community, the importance of sex positivity, and the nuances of sexual orientation and identity. In this conversation, Amy Bushnell and Scott delve into the complexities of gender identity, the significance of pronouns, and the personal journey of transitioning. They discuss the importance of labels, personal accountability, and the distinction between gender identity and sexuality. Amy shares insights into the surgical process of transitioning, the challenges faced by transgender individuals, and the societal perceptions surrounding these topics. The conversation concludes with encouraging words for those navigating their own journeys of self-discovery and acceptance.
Takeaways
- Amy describes herself as a 'unicorn with a horn'.
- She emphasizes the importance of being a priority in relationships.
- Polyamory allows for love with multiple partners.
- Dallas has a vibrant LGBTQ+ scene with many transgender individuals.
- Working in an adult shop involves educating customers about sex positivity.
- Desensitization from certain vibrators can affect sexual pleasure.
- Amy enjoys educating customers about sexual health and wellness.
- Professionalism is key in the adult industry to make customers comfortable.
- There is a hierarchy in the LGBTQ+ community regarding acceptance.
- Asexual individuals have no sexual interest whatsoever. Labels are something we only can put on ourselves.
- If you're going to identify as something, you need to put the work in for it.
- You have to take some accountability in that.
- Gender identity and sexuality are two different things.
- You can't just walk down the street and expect them to gender you right.
- It's a complete transformation.
- The surgery can have high risks, including loss of sensation.
- Most insurances consider gender-affirming surgery elective.
- We just want to live our lives and be happy.
- If you feel a certain way and you're scared, just do it.
