Kris Zocco’s trial for the reckless homicide of Kelly Dwyer was a twisted, haunting case that gripped Milwaukee. The prosecution painted Zocco as someone with a dangerous obsession with asphyxia during sex, citing testimonies from multiple women who described terrifying experiences where he ignored their pleas for air. Kelly's tragic death in 2013 allegedly resulted from one of these extreme encounters, with the prosecution arguing that Zocco strangled her—either manually or during a forced sexual act—then callously disposed of her body in a golf bag. The defense, however, argued that Kelly’s participation in their BDSM relationship was consensual, framing the case as circumstantial with no concrete evidence tying Zocco to her death. Yet, the chilling details, like Zocco’s 17-hour phone blackout and the video of Kelly gasping for air weeks before her death, struck deep. After deliberating for less than three hours, the jury found him guilty.Kelly’s family, devastated and haunted by the loss, shared powerful victim impact statements, describing her as vibrant, trusting, and tragically naive. The pain of seeing Kelly's private life exposed and her remains shown in court was unbearable, with her mother leaving the room during the most graphic moments. Zocco, already serving time for unrelated charges, was sentenced to 31 more years, making him eligible for release in 2065 at age 90. Despite his appeals, the conviction stands. Now, her family channels their grief into the Kelly Dwyer Memorial Peace Project, helping other women facing violence, ensuring Kelly’s life and legacy continue to make an impact.
