This episode explores how charisma, a blend of warmth and competence, can foster meaningful connections but can also devolve into toxic positivity if not used with sensitivity and authenticity.
It explains that while warmth builds trust and competence inspires respect, an overemphasis on projecting these qualities without acknowledging others' actual emotional states can invalidate feelings and damage relationships. True charisma requires emotional intelligence and adapting one's response to the situation, prioritising genuine understanding over a performance of cheerfulness.
Ultimately, the source argues that authenticity is crucial for charisma to remain a positive force.
The original post is available on Substack.
