Most people believe their behavior reflects choice. In reality, much of what we do is driven by emotion moving faster than awareness.
In this episode, RJ Starr examines the psychological difference between reactivity and response, showing how emotional urgency can bypass reflection and govern behavior without our consent. You’ll hear why reactivity feels necessary in the moment, why insight alone doesn’t change patterns, and how a small pause can restore agency, coherence, and authorship over action.
This is not about calming down or controlling feelings. It’s about understanding how behavior is shaped when awareness arrives too late—and how freedom begins when it arrives in time.
