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🎧 BOUNDARIES: Are We Creating Protection or Prison? (Part 1) | The Wrong Words Podcast

“Don’t go over there.”

That’s how many of us were introduced to boundaries. But… what if we’ve been thinking about them all wrong?

In this first part of a bold two-part conversation, hosts Oliver Marcelle and Luvon Dungee explore one of the most frequently used and misunderstood words in modern relationships: Boundaries.

From personal experiences to parenting examples, from marriage counseling to spiritual introspection, they unpack how boundaries are often used to avoid pain instead of build connection—and how that mindset might be keeping us emotionally stuck.

🧠 In this episode, we explore:

• Why boundaries are often introduced after unresolved pain or conflict

• How our childhood teaches us to fear what’s beyond the “line”

• The difference between defining a space to grow and creating a wall to defend

• Whether boundaries are truly about protection… or control

📚 We break down:

• Definitions from Dictionary.com, Merriam-Webster, and Oxford English

• Word origins from Old English (bundan – to bind or confine), Latin (limes – border or limit), and biblical languages

• Hebrew (gevul), Greek (horion), and Aramaic (takhuma) terms that reinforce the tension between restriction and invitation

💥 Powerful moments include:

• Oliver’s story about setting up boundaries for his grandson—and what he unknowingly taught him about fear

• Luvon’s provocative idea: What if boundaries only apply to ourselves?

• A fresh take on “village” thinking—boundaries not as restriction, but as sacred space to co-create

• The realization that defining boundaries too harshly might build inner prisons instead of healthy relationships

👥 What You’ll Walk Away With:

• A reframed understanding of boundaries—not as walls, but as invitations

• Deeper awareness of how language shapes emotional and spiritual health

• Insight into the subconscious messages we send (and received) about limits

• A renewed challenge to build relationships that are defined by freedom, not fear

📊 POLL QUESTION:
What’s your default use of boundaries?
A) Self-protection
B) Control
C) Growth space
D) Avoidance

Tell us in the comments 👇

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