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🎧 CONTROL: Are We Misusing This Word? (Part 2) | The Wrong Words Podcast

“Nothing can control you… unless you can’t control you.”

In Part 2 of this thought-provoking episode, hosts Oliver Marcelle and Luvon Dungee delve even deeper into the layered complexity of the word 'Control,' examining how it manifests in our relationships, emotions, movements, faith, and personal growth.

This isn’t about who’s trying to control you; this is about who’s actually in charge of you.

🧠 In this episode, we explore:

• The 3 Types of Control that affect personal growth: Impulse, Emotional, and Movement Control

• Why emotional outbursts often come from living in memory, not presence

• How religion can sometimes weaponize structure under the illusion of love

• What it really means to surrender, not to people, but to purpose

• The difference between dominance and restraint—and why the latter is the true power

• Why “control” often hides ego, fear, or a lack of identity

📖 We also unpack:

• Proverbs 25:28 — “Like a city whose walls are broken through is a person who lacks self-control.”

• The danger of mistaking personal preference for control

• The inner war between memory and imagination—and how reclaiming imagination can restore self-rule

• The metaphor of buffalo running toward the storm: control not as domination, but as ownership of the process

💥 Powerful Moments Include:

• Luvon’s bold reframe of religion as “a system that teaches banishment, not love”

• Oliver’s breakdown of movement control and how presentation becomes testimony

• The coaching moment where self-love is framed as divine order

• “If I can’t control my anger, sadness, and excitement—how can I show someone how to love me?”

👥 What You’ll Walk Away With:

• A grounded, biblical understanding of self-control

• A reframed relationship with the word control—one that frees instead of confines

• Practical insights to apply in marriage, parenting, leadership, and faith

• A deeper awareness of how your language reflects your power… or your pain

📊 POLL QUESTION:
Which type of control is hardest for you to manage?
A) Impulse
B) Emotions
C) Movement
D) All of the above

👇 Drop your answer in the comments and let’s unpack this together.

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