If you’ve ever wondered how to stay patient in chaos, advocate for a child with complex needs, or rebuild after heartbreak, this conversation is a grounded, generous look at resilience from a mother who has lived it.
In this episode, Becky talks with Candace Bergquist—an identical mirror twin, mother of three, grandmother of six, and a woman who has faced extraordinary challenges with humility, humor, and faith. Candace has lived with fibromyalgia, hearing loss, and a traumatic brain injury while parenting children with complex medical and emotional needs, including cerebral palsy, daily seizures, addiction, and developmental disabilities. She has also endured the heartbreak of losing a child and continues to show up for her family with love and steadiness.
Candace’s personal story and professional background—as a teacher, reading program director, medical assistant, and leader in nonprofit work—have shaped her into a powerful advocate for children and families. In this conversation, she and Becky explore empathy, special-needs parenting, thoughtful communication, and how community support becomes a lifeline through grief and recovery.
If you're navigating disability, emotional upheaval, chronic illness, loss, or simply trying to raise kinder children, this episode offers hope, practical wisdom, and encouragement.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Background of Candice Berquist
01:10 Mirror Twins: Learning to Adapt
04:24 Family Drama: Learning Responsibility
09:42 Lessons on Prejudice and Acceptance
15:10 The Importance of Thoughtful Communication
18:11 Car Accident and Dealing with a Traumatic Brain Injury
27:01 Bad Baby
36:48 Midway
41:02 Child Struggling with Drug Addictions
46:48 Grieving and Support from Community
50:54 Create and Teach Empathy
53:45 Caring for Alicia: Babies with Seizures
01:00:24 Finding Hope: Alicia's Success Story
01:05:42 Advocating with Kindness
01:12:32 Rapid Fire Questions
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