Most women don't need more advice. They need more self-trust.
Whether it's a marriage, career, move, business, or major life change, many women find themselves stuck in what Betsy Pake calls "decision purgatory"—endlessly weighing options, seeking advice, and second-guessing themselves.
In this episode of Powerful on Purpose, Leslie Capps sits down with certified master coach, speaker, author, and podcast host Betsy Pake to explore how women can move beyond self-doubt and learn to trust themselves again.
Drawing from her own journey through a difficult marriage and years of helping women navigate major life decisions, Betsy shares why radical responsibility isn't about blame—it's about reclaiming your power. She also explains why our bodies may be the most powerful source of wisdom we have and how learning to listen to that inner guidance can change everything.
In this episode, you'll learn:
✅ Why women get trapped in "decision purgatory"
✅ How radical responsibility creates freedom
✅ What it means to trust your body as an oracle
✅ Why every experience acts as a mirror
✅ The hidden costs of people-pleasing
✅ How the patriarchy impacts both women and men
✅ Why choosing yourself isn't selfish
This conversation is thoughtful, honest, and packed with insights for anyone facing a difficult decision or looking to create a life that feels more aligned.
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Chapters
00:00 – Meet Betsy Pake
02:00 – Why women struggle with decisions
06:00 – Understanding decision purgatory
10:00 – Radical responsibility explained
15:00 – Every experience is a mirror
19:00 – Trusting your body as an oracle
25:00 – Choosing yourself without guilt
30:00 – The patriarchy as a system
38:00 – How men are impacted too
45:00 – Finding your next right step
50:00 – Betsy's advice for women
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