The Temptation of Jesus in the Desert by satan. The first is physical - it's the first thing we notice about each other. The 2nd is spiritual - it takes longer to get to know a person . . but they must co-operate and let you know them. The 3rd is knowing what the Lord wants you to do. Corrie Ten Boom stated "Guidance does not come automatically. Receiving guidance is a skill to be learned, not a method. It is intensely personal".