As a divorced parent, I carried the weight of missed birthdays and broken holidays. But I’ve learned not to live in the guilt of what I lost. I pour everything into the moments I do get—one call, one hug, one laugh. Kids don’t need perfect. They need you present.
Why it’s important:
In Earned, Not Given, I share how guilt nearly broke me, until I realized presence matters more than perfection. Parents struggling with divorce or co-parenting need this reminder: even small, consistent moments build trust and love. That’s what kids remember.
📖 Earned, Not Given is coming soon.
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