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Gweilo, Gringo, Gaijin, Gora, Guiri—why do so many derogatory slurs towards white people start with G?

No, it’s definitely not because people think we’re Great. It’s purely coincidental. Gweilo, which is widely used in Hong Kong, means white ghost or white devil. Gringo is for those who want a wall but fly over it every winter to stuff their faces in all-you-can-eat resorts in Mexico. Gaijin is what the Japanese use for foreigners who don’t look Asian. Gora is a racial epithet for white people in India. And Guiri, well, that’s me.

The simple answer is that Guiri is slang for foreigners in Spain. However, it is usually only used for foreigners who arrive white and leave red. A more thorough definition comes from Errores de un guiri.

"¿Qué es “guiri?” Un guiri es un extranjero que vive en España. Alguien que pone ketchup en la tortilla, mezcla los verbos estar y ser, deja propinas, busca restaurantes abiertos entre las 15:00 y 20:00, sale al club a las diez, llora en el ayuntamiento, pide paella fuera de la comunidad Valencia, y comete otros errores graves." What is “guiri?” A guiri is a foreigner living in Spain. Someone who puts ketchup on the tortilla, mixes the verbs estar and ser, leaves tips, looks for restaurants open between 15:00-20:00, goes to the club at ten, cries at the town hall, asks for paella outside the Valencia community, and makes other serious mistakes.

The word Guiri isn’t necessarily racist. After all, Spanish people are white, too. They’re just more tanned, shorter, and less tolerant to temperature changes than those of us from up North.

Although Guiri isn’t always derogatory, it does affect how people see you. When I met El Espejo de mi Alma, it was love at first sight, but not first sound. She was attracted to me the second she saw me and turned off the second I said something in Spanish.

Why is it that when foreigners speak English, we find it sexy, but when anglophones speak a foreign language, people find it funny or borderline repugnant (especially in Paris)?

Woe is me! It’s so hard belonging to white, Northern, English-speaking hegemony. What have we ever done to be the enemy? All we ever wanted was a civilized world and to eat something other than potatoes.

Jokes aside, El Espejo de mi Alma noticed the difference in how she saw me in Spain vs. Canada. In Canada, she saw me as more powerful and astute, and in Spain, she saw me as a Guiri—someone transient—which subconsciously led to feelings of insecurity.

In other words, cultural context changes the weight of our words and how we think of others, even when it’s unconscious.

Historical context, power dynamics, social norms, and every art major’s favourite, intersectionality, affect the meaning of a word. A microaggression directed at a person of colour who is also a woman may have different implications compared to the same microaggression directed at a man of colour. Terms that were once commonly used without consequence may now be recognized as derogatory due to increased awareness of historical injustices. And a term that is considered a racial slur in one country might be used casually in another without the same level of offence.

However, most of the ink spilled on the subject comes from “culture writers” in America, where white people are the majority. But worldwide, white people are a minority. Yes, the world is shaped in our favour; we must check our privilege and be allies. That doesn’t mean we’re not subject to the power of words and, to a larger extent, labels.

Though labels can aid methodologies in social sciences and give us a categorical way to describe ourselves, they shouldn't keep us in boxes. One of the therapeutic effects of deep travel is understanding how malleable these labels are. We all need to leave the culture we grew up in to look from the outside in. That’s a start to seeing ourselves and others for who they really are.

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