A few years ago, my Google calendar was filled with meetings, appointments, and reminders that revolved around productivity. Then motherhood—and birth trauma—changed everything. My life slowed, softened, and sharpened my attention to what truly matters. And quietly, my calendar changed too.
In this episode, I reflect on how remembering people—really remembering them—has become a spiritual practice for me. From due dates and grief anniversaries to hard conversations and lonely seasons, I’ve learned that checking in isn’t about having the right words. It’s about presence. It’s about paying attention to what God is already paying attention to.
In this episode, I talk about:
🤍 How birth trauma reshaped my sense of time, attention, and care
🤍 Remembering loss, due dates, and quiet milestones others might forget
🤍 The art of checking in as a form of holy attentiveness and intercession
🤍 Scripture’s call to remember, bear burdens, and weep with those who weep
🤍 Why spiritual maturity isn’t about having answers—but about showing up
Checking in isn’t performative or heroic. It’s a small, faithful act of love that says: I see you. I remember you. You’re not carrying this alone. And in a world that moves quickly and forgets easily, that kind of remembering matters more than we realize.
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