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The War on Motherhood: Why the World Wants Women to Reject Their Greatest Calling
By Calista F. Freiheit
Narration by Amazon Polly
In every age, there has been a war—some visible, some ideological. Today, we are witnessing a quiet but insidious war on one of the most sacred callings known to mankind: motherhood. In the name of empowerment and equality, modern culture has waged a campaign not of liberation, but of inversion—where what was once held as noble is now seen as naïve, and what was once celebrated is now scorned. This is not merely a cultural drift. It is an orchestrated effort to redefine womanhood, hollow out the family, and replace the maternal vocation with a sterile vision of "success" dictated by corporate and bureaucratic powers.
The Rise of Corporate Feminism
Once, feminism advocated for legal protections and respect for women’s unique dignity. But today’s corporate feminism—the kind found on advertising boards and in executive suites—has traded the cradle for the cubicle. The dominant message? That a woman’s worth lies not in the lives she nurtures, but in the positions she occupies. That freedom is found in shedding the burdens of family and embracing the constant hustle.
Major corporations tout slogans of female empowerment while subtly—or sometimes not so subtly—undermining traditional family roles. Paid maternity leave is celebrated more as a retention tool than as a reflection of the maternal gift. Pregnancy is increasingly seen as an interruption, not a celebration. And those who choose full-time motherhood are often ridiculed or pitied for "wasting their potential."
But the question we must ask is: Whose definition of potential are we using?
The Devaluation of Domestic Life
The home, once the cornerstone of culture and civilization, has been recast as a prison. Domestic life, rich with emotional labor and eternal impact, has been diminished in the public eye. Modern narratives portray stay-at-home mothers as unambitious or unfulfilled, while glorifying relentless careerism regardless of its cost to children, marriage, or personal peace.
In truth, no amount of corporate accolade can match the eternal influence of shaping a child’s soul. A society that values consumerism over character will always undervalue motherhood. But God sees differently. Scripture tells us children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised (Proverbs 31).
In past generations, a woman’s contribution to the moral and emotional fabric of her home was undisputed. Today, many women feel isolated in their maternal role. This isolation is not due to the nature of motherhood, but due to its cultural devaluation. Women who dedicate themselves to full-time mothering often report being questioned more than congratulated, pitied more than praised. This shift is not neutral. It is intentional.
Anti-Family Policies and Cultural Drift
The erosion of motherhood is not an accident—it’s aided by anti-family policies that prioritize tax revenue and workforce participation over family stability. Public policy increasingly makes it difficult for families to live on a single income. Health care, housing, and education costs rise while cultural elites tell women that motherhood should be delayed—or even discarded—for the sake of self-actualization.
In Scandinavian nations, women are lauded for working full-time while their children enter state-funded daycare at six months. Meanwhile, in the United States, the economic pressures and cultural shame placed on stay-at-home mothers serve as a two-pronged attack: even if a woman desires to stay home, she is often told she shouldn't—and perhaps can’t.
The irony is profound. As society pretends to champion “choice,” it subtly eradicates the choice of full-time motherhood by making it economically unsustainable and socially unfashionable. There is no empowerment in coercion—especially when it’s cloaked in slogans about progress.
Education and Indoctrination: A Subtle Undermining
The modern education system has also played a role in reshaping attitudes toward motherhood. From elementary classrooms to university lecture halls, young girls are taught to reach for the stars—but only in ways that fit the prevailing corporate mold. Aspirations to become doctors, engineers, and CEOs are celebrated. Aspiring to be a mother? That’s often deemed quaint at best, regressive at worst.
This indoctrination is subtle but pervasive. It shapes the ambitions of girls from a young age, leaving many to view motherhood as a detour from greatness, rather than a destination filled with its own dignity and grandeur.
Motherhood as Countercultural Witness
What, then, is the Christian response to this tide? It is to reclaim motherhood as not only valid, but vital. To lift up the beauty of nurturing life as an act of resistance against a world that sees children as inconvenience and mothers as obsolete.
Christian women must be bold in their embrace of motherhood. This does not mean shunning education or eschewing work entirely—it means rejecting the narrative that you must reject your children in order to matter. The countercultural witness of a mother who delights in her role has the power to soften hardened hearts and awaken a culture to what it has forgotten.
Stories from the Front Lines of Faithful Motherhood
Across the country, Christian women are choosing a better path. They are raising children with intentionality, sacrificing convenience for eternity, and embracing their calling with courage. Sarah, a former marketing executive, left her high-paying job to homeschool her four children. “I thought I’d miss the accolades,” she says. “But what I’ve gained is far more eternal.”
Maria, a single mom of two, works nights so she can spend her days guiding her children’s hearts. “The world won’t teach them truth,” she says. “That’s my job.”
These stories aren't rare. They're just rarely told. The world doesn’t spotlight faithful mothers—but heaven does.
Redefining Strength and Success
In modern parlance, strength means "doing it all"—career, family, fitness, social life—with effortless grace. But biblical strength looks very different. It’s found in patience, sacrifice, resilience, and service. Strength is the mother who rocks a colicky baby at 3 a.m. without fanfare. Success is the woman who raises children to know their Creator and serve others.
Our society desperately needs to redefine these terms. Women are not liberated by becoming more like men. They are freed when they embrace the fullness of their God-given design. That design includes the unique ability to carry, birth, nurture, and disciple the next generation.
Restoring the Sacredness of Motherhood
The Church must lead in restoring reverence for motherhood. Sermons should celebrate mothers not just on one Sunday in May, but through discipleship and support systems year-round. Men should be equipped to support, protect, and honor the mothers of their children. And older women, as Paul exhorted in Titus 2, must mentor younger women in the joy and responsibility of motherhood.
This is not a call to idolize mothers, but to recognize the sacredness of the task. For every policy passed or ad campaign launched against traditional motherhood, Christian communities must offer testimonies of hope, joy, and perseverance from mothers who have chosen a different way.
Practical Steps for Reclaiming the Calling
* Affirm Motherhood in Language and Life: Speak about motherhood with reverence, not regret. Use words that uplift rather than diminish. Model this in your community.
* Support Family-Friendly Policies: Advocate for flexible work schedules, fair parental leave, and tax policies that do not penalize single-income families.
* Mentorship and Discipleship: Older women must take seriously the call to walk with younger mothers, offering wisdom, encouragement, and spiritual nourishment.
* Family Budgeting and Planning: Equip couples to live on a single income if desired. Churches can offer financial planning classes with this goal in mind.
* Celebration of Family Life: Host events that celebrate families and honor mothers for their unseen labor and eternal investments.
* Encourage Young Women to See Motherhood as a Goal: Stop treating motherhood as an accident of biology and begin viewing it as a purpose-driven calling.
* Promote Literature and Media That Honors Motherhood: Create and share content that presents motherhood as dignified, purposeful, and praiseworthy.
Conclusion: The Courage to Stand Apart
The war on motherhood is real, but it is not new. From Pharaoh’s edict to Herod’s massacre, history is full of attempts to thwart life at its source. Yet God always preserved a remnant. Today, the preservation of a culture that values life and family rests with those courageous enough to reject the lies and embrace the truth.
Motherhood is not a backup plan. It is not a concession. It is a high calling—one that shapes nations, restores culture, and honors God. It is time Christian women stopped apologizing for embracing it.
Let the world have its boardrooms. We’ll take the nursery—for in it, we shape eternity.
Calista's Call to Action: Support a young mother this week—through prayer, encouragement, or a practical act of service. Remind her she is doing holy work.
Thank you for your time today. Until next time, God Bless.
