Sometimes the hardest part isn’t the work itself—it’s what’s going on beneath the surface. That quiet voice telling you you’re not ready, not good enough, or not the kind of person who makes it. It doesn’t always show up loudly, but it shapes how you show up in every room, every pitch, every decision. Most people don’t even realize how much of their life is being run by fear they’ve never named. And until that changes, no amount of strategy or effort feels like it’s enough.
Summary:
Michele Molitor is the founder and CEO of Nectar Consulting, a transformational coaching and hypnotherapy practice rooted in over two decades of experience. After overcoming a difficult career loss that shook her confidence, she committed herself to helping others dismantle self-doubt and reclaim their power. Through her "rapid rewiring" method—a blend of neuroscience, coaching, and hypnotherapy—she helps professionals eliminate limiting beliefs and reprogram their mindset for lasting success. Today, Michele shares insights on how subconscious patterns shape behavior, the power of emotional intelligence in leadership, and how certain platforms can foster deeper understanding and more effective communication in organizations.
Quotes:
* "When you're clear on those core values within yourself, it's much easier to stand up confidently for who you are, what you bring to the table, and how you want to move through the world with greater ease and joy."
* "In the absence of information, our brains want to fill in the gaps. We make things up."
* "I get out of bed to support people in seeing themselves and letting go of old belief systems they've been carrying around since childhood. Beliefs they don't even know are in there. I lovingly refer to it as the junk in your trunk. You’ve got to let go of the junk in your trunk so you can feel lighter, brighter, and be more resilient."
Takeaways:
* Identify your top 5 core values or "dignity traits" and reflect on how they currently show up (or don't) in your personal and professional life.
* Understand how you want to be treated and communicate more effectively with colleagues and loved ones.
* Schedule a 15-minute self-reflection session to uncover one unconscious belief that might be blocking your success, and brainstorm how to reframe it.
* Create a personal "junk in the trunk" inventory - list three emotional or mental barriers holding you back and develop a simple strategy to release each one.
* Join an online community or seek a coach who specializes in mindset transformation to help you break through personal and professional limitations.
Timeline:
[00:31] What Drives Michele to Help Others Heal
[02:58] From Burnout to Breakthrough in Career Shift
[06:40] How Dignified Is Changing the Way Teams Talk
[12:17] Coaching Wins That Go Beyond the Usual Fixes
[27:26] Why Belonging and Safety Matter More Than Ever
Conclusion:
Real growth starts with knowing what matters most to you and how your emotions shape the way you show up in the world. When people take time to understand their habits, fears, and beliefs, they create space for better decisions and stronger relationships. Speaking with respect and clarity helps build trust, both at work and in daily life. The way we think and feel inside has a direct effect on what we experience outside. With steady self-awareness and honest reflection, lasting personal and professional changes become possible.
Links/Resources:
Website:
https://michelemolitor.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelemolitor/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/michele.molitor/
I Am Perfectly Flawsome: How Embracing Imperfection Makes Us Better: https://www.amazon.com/Am-Perfectly-Flawsome-Embracing-Imperfection-ebook/dp/B0D31V71D2
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