Resources for those in abusive situations are included at the end of this text
We often think of emotional abuse as something that happens behind closed doors -- a private wound, a personal betrayal. But what if the same tactics that erode someone's trust in themselves also shape our public life? In this episode, we explore gaslighting, control, and the subtle emotional abuse we're being taught to accept -- not just in relationships, but in institutions, workplaces, and the political narratives we're handed.
From shifting blame to silencing dissent, from rewriting events to punishing accountability, emotional manipulation has become a tactic of power -- and it thrives in isolation. But healing begins when we name what's happening, when we choose connection over compliance, and when we begin to trust what we see, feel, and knowledge again.
This episode is not just about seeing clearly -- it's about breaking the cycle together. Because real love doesn't require silence. And real power doesn't seek to control -- it listens, liberates, and makes room for truth.
Joni Miller, Ph.D., is a writer, researcher, spiritual coach, and speaker who uses her knowledge, education, and love of all things spiritual to help spiritual wanderers find a place they can call home, navigating by the light of Love. www.SpiritualGeography.net
Note: If you or someone you love is in an emotionally abusive or controlling situation, you’re not alone - and there is help.
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 24/7 confidential support, resources, and live chat for survivors of domestic abuse, their loved ones, and those seeking information. 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or Text “START” to 88788; www.thehotline.org
RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): The largest anti-sexual violence organization in the U.S., with crisis support and education on emotional abuse, coercive control, and more. www.rainn.org
UN Women - Resources on Gender-Based Violence: Includes links to local and regional crisis centers around the world. www.unwomen.org
Photo by Sasith Mawananehewa: https://www.pexels.com/photo/a-man-with-tape-on-the-mouth-6173374/
