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This week, it’s all about the L in LGBTQ+. Nikki & Meg dive into the world of women-loving-women romances: the genre’s underrepresentation, share standout books they’ve read recently, and explore their own relationships to sapphic stories.

Listen in for:

* Why FF romance still doesn’t get the love it deserves

* Stereotypes vs. archetypes and how to tell the difference

* Trope differences across FF and MM romance

* And what makes sapphic stories feel distinct and powerful

With a mix of recs, reflections, and one tiny Rent rant (justice for Joanne!), this episode celebrates the full spectrum of sapphic love.

Books & Media We Mention:

* Scout and the Lavender Girl by Kelly Fox

* Written in the Stars by Alexandria Bellefleur

* Delilah Green Doesn’t Care by Ashley Herring Blake

* When You Least Expect It by Haley Cass

* The Romance Recipe by Ruby Barrett

* Mistakes Were Made by Meryl Wilsner

* The Lady’s Guide to Celestial Mechanics by Olivia Waite

* An Island Princess Starts a Scandal by Adriana Herrera

* The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid

* Rent, Killing Eve, The L Word, Grey’s Anatomy

* Carol (film)

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