Have you ever looked at the clock, only to discover that hours have flown by?
Somehow you’re going to be late again, even though you swore you had enough time.
If so, you’ve probably heard the term “time blindness.” It’s trending on TikTok and Reddit, with millions of people saying:
“It’s not that I’m lazy; my brain just doesn’t sense time the way yours does.”
And they’re not wrong.
Although time blindness isn’t a formal diagnosis, it is a very real psychological phenomenon that results in a distorted perception of how time passes. It’s often linked with ADHD, but it can also show up in trauma, anxiety, depression, or chronic stress.
In this piece, we’ll explore time blindness, what causes it, and you’ll learn a practical tip that you can use to recalibrate your internal clock. For a deeper dive, you can listen to the latest episode of Mental Health Bites here or on Apple Podcasts. You can also find more short clips and helpful tips at my YouTube channel.
Let’s jump in.
The Science Behind Time Blindness
Our brain has an internal timing system that is mostly governed by areas like the prefrontal cortex, basal ganglia, and cerebellum. These regions help us estimate durations, anticipate deadlines, and transition smoothly between tasks.
But when your nervous system is dysregulated that internal clock goes haywire.
People with time blindness might:
* chronically underestimate how long things take,
* get lost in “time warps” of hyperfocus or dissociation, or
* experience the opposite, the feeling that every second drags on when you’re anxious or bored.
For trauma survivors, time can feel fragmented — moments stretch or collapse without warning. In anxiety, the mind runs ahead of the present, always scanning for what’s next.And in ADHD, dopamine irregularities make it harder to feel the emotional weight of the future — which is why “five minutes” can feel like forever one moment and vanish the next.
Neuroscientists sometimes call this “temporal dysregulation,” meaning the brain’s ability to track and emotionally engage with time is disrupted.When this happens, time either becomes too fluid (slipping away unnoticed) or too rigid (feeling painfully slow).
So when someone says, “I’m not bad with time — I just don’t feel it like others do,” they’re expressing something very real about their nervous system.
And if that’s you, take heart. This isn’t a moral failing or a lack of discipline — it’s a pattern your brain has learned, often in response to stress, overwhelm, or years of self-blame.The good news? With awareness and practice, it can be rewired.
How to Recalibrate Your Internal Clock
One of my favorite tools for time blindness is something I call the Time Anchoring Reset — a simple, neuroscience-informed practice that helps your brain reconnect to the rhythm of real time.
These three steps work because they target both the cognitive and physiological sides of time perception — helping you not only know what time it is but feel it again..
* Ground in the present moment. Before you start a task, take 30 seconds to orient to where you are. Notice the sounds around you, feel your feet on the floor, and name the time out loud: “It’s 2:45, and I’m beginning this project now.”
It might sound small, but this act of marking the moment signals to your brain, “We are starting now.” This strengthens temporal awareness and activates the prefrontal cortex — the same region responsible for planning and focus.
* Externalize time. Don’t rely solely on your brain’s internal clock — give it something concrete to work with. Timers, visual countdowns, and even Spotify playlists with set lengths can become your allies. For instance, say to yourself: “I’ll check emails for two songs.”
By connecting your task to an external rhythm, you train your brain to perceive duration accurately again. Over time, these external cues start to re-teach your nervous system how to feel time intuitively..
* Bridge your “future self.” Before wrapping up an activity, imagine yourself 15 minutes from now. What will that version of you need? Water? Your keys? A sense of calm before the next task?
This exercise strengthens prospective memory — your ability to remember to do things in the future — and helps reduce the “temporal cliffs” that make transitions so jarring for people with time blindness. You’re teaching your mind to think beyond now without losing your grounding in the present.
Over time, these practices will help you internalize time cues naturally. And it will start to feel less and less like you’re living in fast-forward or rewind.
So if you’ve blamed yourself for being “bad with time,” it’s time (no pun intended) to show yourself compassion. You’re not broken. You just need to recalibrate the clock inside your mind.
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About me:
Dr. Judy Ho, Ph. D., ABPP, ABPdN is a triple board certified and licensed Clinical and Forensic Neuropsychologist, a tenured Associate Professor at Pepperdine University, television and podcast host, and author of Stop Self-Sabotage. An avid researcher and a two-time recipient of the National Institute of Mental Health Services Research Award, Dr. Judy maintains a private practice where she specializes in comprehensive neuropsychological evaluations and expert witness work. She is often called on by the media as an expert psychologist and is also a sought after public speaker for universities, businesses, and organizations.
Dr. Judy received her bachelor’s degrees in Psychology and Business Administration from UC Berkeley, and her masters and doctorate from SDSU/UCSD Joint Doctoral Program in Clinical Psychology. She completed a National Institute of Mental Health sponsored fellowship at UCLA’s Semel Institute.
