In this powerful episode, we sit down with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers, a renowned coach, educator, and speaker in the polyamory and non-monogamy space. Evita opens up about her personal evolution—beginning with a conventional monogamous marriage and the desire to explore her queerness. That desire led her and her husband into swinging, a journey that exposed challenges around communication, jealousy, and emotional connection. Ultimately, this path guided them to polyamory.
Evita shares how embracing transparency and vulnerability—especially through social media—helped her connect with others navigating similar journeys. Her candid storytelling and insights not only led to a growing online presence but also to opportunities like publishing her book and becoming a trusted coach for countless individuals exploring consensual non-monogamy.
If you’ve ever wondered how people transition from monogamy to polyamory, or what it takes to show up publicly and unapologetically in your truth, this episode is for you.
Find Evita at lavitaloca34 on IG & lavitalocasawyers on FB
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