In this episode, we unpack some of the most common pitfalls people encounter when entering or navigating polyamorous relationships. We explore the challenges of unicorn hunting and dating only as a couple, the risks of using polyamory as a solution for failed monogamous relationships, and the problems that come from copy-pasting monogamous norms into polyamory.
We also discuss the difference between equity and equality in relationships, the danger of overextending your emotional and logistical capacity, and how avoiding conflict in the name of compersion can create long-term harm. Finally, we reflect on the unrealistic expectations that metamours must be either close friends or enemies, and how that binary can get in the way of more authentic, healthy dynamics.
This episode is an honest look at what not to do in polyamory and how to develop more sustainable and liberated relationship practices.
Episode Resources:
A Beginner’s Guide to Relationship Agreements in Non-Monogamy
Unpacking Jealousy & Envy in Polyamory
Metamour Relationships in Polyamory
More From SunShan:
Polyamory E-Books by Shani Goodson
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