Nicola Goodall lives in Edinburgh and has supported women during and after birth for over 20 years. She grew up in a diverse community in South London and became a Muslim and a mother by the age of 24. Nicola is passionate about traditional storytelling, sharing and learning amongst women. She is one of the founding members of the Scottish Doula Network and a birth educator and Muslim doula
- What is a doula? “Your ultimate faith-bearer, ready to fill any gaps that might be there”
- The woman that has that blessing
- Fully in service to the mother
- Humility and spiritual development
- Becoming a doula in her spiritual community
- Training to become a doula with Michel Odent
- Earning money from something in service
- Fair exchange
- The importance of the postnatal period
- The impact of the fourth trimester on the rest of life
- Issues of depletion on health
- Prioritising well-being in the postnatal period e.g by reducing spending on non-essentials
- Simple ways of restoring wellness such as stockpiling bone broth, massaging ginger oil into the legs and keeping warm
- Warmth to retain energy and assist blood flow around the body for efficient healing and recovery
- Keep snug and wrapped up
- Science backing up traditional wisdom
- Medicalisation and the colonial approach to health care
- Witches, Midwives and Nurses
- Class and choices
- Conflicting voices around breastfeeding and other choices
- The change in postnatal services
- Cultural competancy and woman-centred care
- Profiting from traditional wisdom and cultural appropriation in the birth world
- Ancestral memory passed down through the women in the family
- Instagram culture makes it acceptable for
- The book: ‘Why I’m No Longer Talking to White People about Race’ by Renni Eddo-Lodge
- Postnatal ceremonies around the world such as ‘Closing The Bones’, mainly involving women, bathing as a ritual cleansing, anointing by the elders
- The 6 week check as a remnant of the 40 day laying in period
- ‘Churching’ where you get blessed in church after having a baby
- The concept of a death ritual, saying goodbye to who she was and welcoming the new mother
- The birthkeeper is the storykeeper
- Facing death and dying
- The common fear of dads-to-be that their partners might die in childbirth
- The impact of generational trauma
- Matching care to their cultural experience
- The MMBRACE report https://www.npeu.ox.ac.uk/mbrrace-uk/reports, which states that black women are 5 times more likely to die than white women, and Asian women are twice as likely to die at birth
- Postpartum herbs for rebuilding energy and blood https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/711176497/postnatal-herbs-v-steam-or-bathe-large?ref=shop_home_active_12
- Dr Sims and the origins of barbaric gynaecological experiments on slave women
- Telling the truth of the history of medicine
- The impact of pregnancy, birth and maternal-baby bonding on the psyche
- The need for loving care after having a baby
- Nicola’s article about the ethical consumer and the National Childbirth Trust (NCT), who partner with Clarion, and hold arms fairs https://nicolathebirthkeeper.com/2019/07/31/can-an-ethical-consumer-still-spend-money-with-the-nct/
Resources:
Twitter https://twitter.com/letstalkbirth1
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/nicolamahdiyyahgoodall
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You can find out more about Nicola by going to her website https://nicolathebirthkeeper.com
Or visiting Red Tent Doulas
https://redtentdoulas.co.uk
Nicola’s TED talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9uNHnbGkh4s
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