One of my biggest giggles in life is how many people find it completely normal to ask really good questions when signing mortgages, when at the doctor's room, or when buying a car. Yet when out on a date, many people find it too embarrassing to ask the question needed to be asked to get jiggy with it.
Sitting across from your potential lover and speaking incessantly about travels, family members, dogs..etc etc is not going to get you the touch you want, or the information you need to have to see if they can even provide that for you.
Look, all those subjects are awesome.
But you are on a date for a reason.
Not to book a trip to Thailand ( or though you might..)
Anyways… all conversation is needed, yet a conversation void of the stuff you are there for is kind of setting you both up for disaster.
In this video, I go through some really great questions to ask.
Make sure you give them a try next time you are eating by candlelight.
Muster up some courage and have fun.
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