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Lover… can we talk dirty for a moment?
No, seriously.Not just the moans and the filthy whispers (though, goddess yes!!! more of that please)…
Let’s talk about dirty ( pleasure ) talk. The words we crave to hear… or at times fear to speak.
For some, dirty talk is the eroticism to their ecstasy.And for others, it feels like speaking a foreign language while naked under pressure that turns things south in a second.
Is dirty talk hot... or just awkward for you? Just like any other skill it needs to be practiced.
What is great about it? The Pros:
* It can turn you and your body on with just words alone. A whisper in your ear can feel like a hand on your thigh. ( mmmhhh melt )
* It builds anticipation and tension. (Tease me with your voice before you touch me.)
* It’s a playground for desire, fantasy, and power dynamics.
* It helps you claim your desires out loud which is seriously hot AF.
* AND It builds intimacy
What is not so hot about it….
* It can feel awkward or performative if it’s not authentic.
* Some people go straight to porn language which might feel disconnected or harsh.
* It can bring up shame, self-consciousness, or fear of saying the “wrong” thing.
* If partners are not attuned, it can miss the mark (and kill the mood instead of lighting it up).
* Without consent and boundaries, dirty talk can go from hot to harmful real fast.
So… how do we make dirty talk hot?
In my video above I go through the ways to do so and I have included a great resource to get started on your sexy journey of turning your words into a sexy party all on their own.
Basically, your voice is as powerful as your body.
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With moans, magic, and a wink,Melissa LouiseSacred Sexuality Coach | Erotic Blueprint™ MentorTurning you on, one word at a time 💋
