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Even though Hollywood would have us believe that sex and intimacy is a set of generic steps that has the act all wrapped up in 7 minutes with the women generally still wearing a (padded) bra, we all know that it is not a cookie-cutter act that follows a set of steps that can be used every single time we want to jiggy with it.
Just expecting your partner or your new lover to know what to do with your pleasure and your body is kind of shitty and also not that fair.
It is a huge responsibility to go down the road of guessing, hoping, and assuming that how they touch you will work for you.
It is up to you to invite, show, and support your lover to touch you the way that works for you.
This requires you knowing yourself.
And that dear lover is a fun pathway to greatness.
In this video, I dive into this topic further.
I hope it supports you in having the sex and pleasure you deeply crave.
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