Have you noticed how often the boys and men in your life struggle with emotional intimacy? They tend to pull away when feelings run high. They insist they’re fine when clearly they’re not. They seem unable to say what’s really going on.[0:02] Chelle introduces Season 3, Episode 3 and welcomes Dr. Niobe Way.[1:47] Niobe shares a 'good girl' expectation she's shaking off. [2:44] Niobe defines thin vs. thick stories and how context shapes human development.[8:37] Niobe explains how patriarchy drives the “thin story” for boys and girls.[15:43] Niobe defines “boy culture” as a caricature that strips boys of their soft sides.[20:46] Niobe reframes emotional sensitivity as maturity, not immaturity.[22:01] Niobe outlines four findings from 40 years of research on boys and men.[30:59] Niobe compares girls’ “I don’t know” with boys’ “I don’t care,” explaining how both reflect cultural disconnection.[32:37] Niobe explains that nurturing our natural relational capacities can heal the crisis of connection. [39:40] Niobe shares how parents can practice curiosity and connection at home.[45:58] Niobe shares her final insights. [47:20] Post-show behind-the-scenes with Chelle and Evie.
