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A man asks whether anyone has ever done the “friends first” with a potential partner and how it worked out. I like this approach. My concern is how to frame this without the other person thinking they’re being used for attention or The Girlfriend/Boyfriend Experience. I explain how and when to communicate this expectation in the episode.
In “Fuck This Guy” news, a man on Tik Tok thinks if a woman has a high body count, that means she has low standards. The problem with this argument is that it implies men only sleep with women that meet their standards.
In “Fuck That Guy Part Deux” news, a woman feels blindsided when the man she is dating does an about-face and dumps her after they sleep together. Normally, I’d write this off as a guy who didn’t know until he knew type of thing. Not in this case.
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