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One the first day of Christmas, Tik Tok gave to me:

…One man a weeping, two Pick Mes picking, three tips for dating app success, and one pretentiously long Medium dating essay about ghosting that Sarah savagely shreds.

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In This Episode:

* Did she really dump him because of his dog?

* The problem with first date oversharing

* Is what you’re wearing keeping you single?

* How do you tell the difference between a low effort first date and a casual first date?

* The two things you must do to find love online

* Why compromising isn’t the same as settling

* Why do men overestimate women’s sexual interest

Links

* Why we find certain people attractive https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/science-behind-why-we-find-certain-people-attractive

* Why men overestimate women’s interest https://www.psypost.org/2020/06/study-offers-new-psychological-explanation-for-mens-tendency-to-overestimate-womens-romantic-interest-57167

* Medium article https://medium.com/@carsonmckenna88/i-thought-i-got-ghosted-then-i-received-this-surprising-text-746cebc5f12b

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