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We recently received a letter from a long-time listener seeking clarity on her mother's advice. She wonders whether men are drawn more to women who embrace a relaxed and casual style than those who resemble models fresh off the cover of Vogue. We disagree with her mother's advice and explain why a man might suggest a woman dress down for dates.

We also provided feedback to a man looking to spruce up his Tinder bio. I advised him to remove the opening line. There are many ways to interpret that sentence, most of which are off-putting.

Here's the bio. What do you guys think?

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