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We’ve been sold the idea that peace looks like candles, bubble baths, and endless calm — but that’s the myth of “pretty peace.” In reality, peace isn’t always soft or serene. Sometimes it’s found in tears on the floor, setting boundaries that hurt, or letting go of relationships you wanted to keep.

In this episode, I share what “ugly peace” has looked like in my own life — the moments that felt anything but peaceful, yet ultimately grounded me in alignment. Because peace isn’t about avoiding chaos; it’s about moving through it.

You’ll hear:

Why the myth of pretty peace keeps us stuck

Real-life examples of what ugly peace can look like

Why choosing uncomfortable peace now prevents bigger chaos later

A grounding reminder that messy doesn’t mean wrong — it means real

If peace feels anything but pretty in your life right now, take heart: you’re not failing. You might finally be getting it right.



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