In this episode of Creating an Empowered Life, Ray challenges the well-worn phrase “Fake it till you make it” and explores why it often backfires. He offers a more grounded, empowering alternative: build on what’s already real. Drawing on NLP concepts, Ray explains how to develop qualities like confidence through practice, rather than relying on performance.
Whether you’re working on public speaking, leadership, or simply showing up more fully in life, this episode gives you practical insights to shift from pretending to preparing and create lasting change.
🎧 Listen now and discover how to:
* Use what you already have as the foundation for growth
* Access real confidence and strengthen it through action
* Let go of perfectionism and show up with self-trust
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