Today’s episode explores the idea that a simple shift in perspective can often be the key to solving problems that seem impossible to overcome. So, can a change in how we view a situation make all the difference?
Many times, when we're stuck in a problem, the solution might not be found by doing more or trying harder. Instead, it could be a matter of looking at the problem from a different angle, seeing it through the lens of someone else, or even stepping back to allow for a fresh perspective to emerge.
In my work with clients, I've often found that a lot of problems can be resolved just by helping someone shift their mindset. It’s easy to get trapped in our own point of view, especially when we’re emotionally involved in the situation. Our egos often prevent us from considering how others might see things, but sometimes, that’s exactly what we need to open up to new solutions.
I invite you today to think about a problem or situation where you're feeling stuck. Is there another way to look at it? Could there be an angle you haven’t yet considered? If you’re struggling to find it on your own, don’t hesitate to ask someone you trust for their perspective. As Wayne Dyer famously said, "If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."
It’s similar to solving a math problem — sometimes, stepping away and returning with fresh eyes helps us spot what we missed earlier. As I work with clients, especially in one-on-one coaching, I often ask them to reconsider the problem in a different light. Could it be that the situation is presenting an opportunity for growth, rather than simply being a hurdle?
As a mother, I’ve experienced this firsthand. When faced with challenges with my kids, my instinct was always to fix things, assuming something was broken. But when I began to seek perspectives from other moms who had already raised their children, I realized there was so much more I could learn from their experiences. Seeing my challenges through their eyes helped me move beyond “fixing” and towards more listening, empathy, and finding intuitive solutions.
So, today, I invite you to explore a problem that’s currently making you feel stuck. If you can’t find a new perspective on your own, reach out to someone else and ask how they might view the situation. Even just this shift in perspective can often lead to surprising insights. You may find that the problem isn’t as difficult as it seemed, or that there’s a completely new approach waiting to be discovered.
Remember, sometimes it only takes one perspective shift to change your attitude — and even the problem itself. Try it out and see what happens. I’d love to hear how it goes for you!
