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My love,
Co-parenting with someone you’re no longer in a relationship with is… a lot.
One message, one handover, one comment from the kids — and suddenly you’re anxious, enraged, or up all night ruminating.
If you’ve ever:
* Felt sick opening a WhatsApp from your ex
* Worried you’re “messing up” your kids by saying the wrong thing
* Obsessed over what’s happening in their other home
…this workshop is for you.
This month inside Magic Divorce Club, I invited Ashley Johnson – sexuality educator, coach, and long-time children’s advocate – to help us co-parent in a way that:
Protects your kids, honours your values, and keeps you grounded.
What we cover
We start in the Magic Clubhouse with a grounding meditation, so your nervous system feels safer before we tackle the hard stuff.
Then we move through three key areas:
1. Communication that doesn’t fry your nervous system
* The two golden rules to Coparenting Comms (what not to do!).
* Simple response rules (when you reply, how you reply).
* Neutral scripts + using tools to de-escalate your replies.
2. Boundaries based on your values (not punishing your ex)
* Creating a private mock parenting plan so you know what really matters to you.
* Sorting your “true non-negotiables” so you can let things go.
* Simple boundary sentences, that honour and protect your values.
3. When the kids are with their other parent
* The difference between genuine safety issues and “not how I’d do it”.
* What to do with the stories kids bring back.
* Rituals for handover days so you don’t spiral.
* How to create a steady anchor.
This is for you if…
* You dread messages from your ex
* You worry co-parenting is damaging your kids
* You’re tired of feeling like the only adult in the room
* You want calm, clear tools instead of constant drama
What you get as a Magic Divorce Club member
When you become a LUXE member, you’ll get:
* Full access to the co-parenting workshop replay above
* The grounding meditation from the Magic Clubhouse
* Three downloadable PDFs to help you:
* Communicate calmly with your co-parent
* Clarify your values + mock parenting plan
* Cope when the kids are with their other parent
Plus 12 months of workshops and ongoing support on our Magic Monday calls and in the community.
👉 Upgrade to a LUXE member of the Magic Divorce Club to watch the full workshop and download the PDFs:
