In this week’s episode, we dive into a letter that captures the chaotic, thrilling magic of losing control — and finding yourself. We talk about the tension between control and pleasure, swap funny (and slightly mortifying) stories about how we first learned about sex (spoiler: it involves a secret porn stash), and unpack how part of growing up is getting more comfortable with emotions — like anger — that can feel wildly out of control, but are actually vital to recognize and communicate.