In this episode, we dig into the pain of being seen only through an old lens — how family can lock us into outdated versions of ourselves and weaponize our deepest insecurities. We talk about what it means to lose yourself in those dynamics, the tug-of-war between self-respect and obligation, and why the people who know us best can sometimes cut the deepest. Plus, we revisit the strange era of Facebook wall posts. Did anyone ever think poking was good UX?