I’ve been thinking a lot about how often people talk about healing as if it’s somewhere you arrive. Like there’s a point where you’re finally “there.” Where triggers stop showing up. Where old patterns stop activating. Where you can confidently say, I’m healed now.
And I think a lot of people are tired because they’re chasing that idea. They keep asking themselves questions like:
* When am I going to get there?
* Why does this still come up if I’ve done so much work?
* Why am I still reacting like this?
What doesn’t get said enough is that those questions aren’t signs of failure — they’re signs that the framework itself is flawed. Healing is not a destination.
The problem isn’t that we have wounds. The problem begins when we expect healing to erase them. We are exploring all of this in today’s episode.
xoxo,
Goddess Theadora