Thank you Margaret Williams, MS, ACC, Warrior Womanhood, Mac, and many others for tuning into my live video with LaMakhosi (La Mar)! Join me for my next live video in the app.
We’re early with this week’s episode — because this one really couldn’t wait. Before you press play, I want you to pause and read the reflection I shared on Saturday — and LaMakhosi (La Mar) beautiful response in the comments that brought us right here, right now, to this Spirit-led conversation.
Sometimes Spirit doesn’t wait for our calendars to clear. It moves when it moves. And this conversation? Whew. It’s one of those moments that moved me — and I know it’s about to move you, too.
In “Is It an Absolute Fuck Yes?”, we’re diving into that tender, in-between space — the moments where you’re deciding whether to shrink or stand tall, to settle or to stay rooted in your truth.
It started with a question I asked myself after being considered for a job:
“Do I really want to take something that requires me to hide parts of myself — my piercings, my tattoos, my energy — just to fit in?”
That question turned into a reflection, which turned into LaMar’s response, which turned into this — a conversation about authenticity, belonging, self-trust, and the courage to honor our “no” even when it’s inconvenient.
Together, we explore:
* The tension between survival and self-expression
* How to recognize when your body and Spirit are saying no, not this
* The art of honoring your own energy — even when you can’t fully explain why
* And what it looks like to release every version of yourself that no longer feels “juicy”
It’s emotional, raw, and divinely timed. I cried reading LaMar’s story out loud as it gave voice to my own. I feel myself constantly reminded why I started this platform in the first place — to have this kind of conversation. So before you tune in, read Saturday’s post. Read LaMar’s response in the comments. Then come back and get this medicine.
This is for anyone standing at the crossroads of faith and fear.
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xoxo,
Goddess Thea
