As fireworks light up the sky and grills get fired up this week, we’re taking a moment to ask: what does patriotism mean in 2025?
In this episode of A Couple Thinks, we reflect on our childhood memories of the 4th of July—bicycle parades, sticky nights, firework shows, and explore how those feelings of civic pride have evolved as we’ve learned more about America’s history and reckoned with its present.
We talk about:
* Growing up near America’s founding landmarks (Aaron in Philly, Lisa in DC)
* Why our kids don’t feel as connected to July 4th traditions
* The co-opting of patriotic symbols and language by the political right
* The tension between rugged individualism and community care
* Why we still believe in showing up, for our country, and for one another
We also share some of our favorite quotes from Mark Twain, Teddy Roosevelt, and James Baldwin that help us define a kind of patriotism that is grounded in love and accountability.
In the end, we agree: loving your country doesn't mean denying its flaws. It means rolling up your sleeves, building community, and insisting on something better, for all of us.
💥 Plus, we share our joyful moments from the week, including a surprise appearance by Joan Baez and a delightful Rotary Club tradition.
👉 Actions This Week:
* Mark your calendar for Good Trouble Day – July 17th: A national protest day in honor of John Lewis. Sponsors include Indivisible, The 50501 Movement and more
* Write postcards to voters and call your senators, especially about that “big, beautiful bill” (or as Aaron calls it, large, lousy legislation).
* And if you're curious about community and service, reach out to learn more about Rotary!
* Jess Craven’s NOTES tab has up to the minute actions you can take. If you’re reading this before the large, lousy legislation vote, please check on her suggested actions!
As always, we’d love to hear from you. Drop us a note at hello@acouplethinks.com with thoughts, questions, or your own July 4th reflections.
