Happy Sunday, friends!
Today Lawrence Winnerman and I had a great conversation about this story I wrote about demisexuality:
But really, it was a conversation about much more, including...
* When does something cross over from being a modifier to an identity?
* Do neo-identities like demisexual belong on the LGBTQ+ continuum, or are they taking up space where they don’t belong?
* Is identity immutable?
* Does it harm tweens and teens to identify as asexual or demisexual, because they apply a label that might be hard to escape over time?
* How can asexuality be a spectrum, when the “a” prefix means “not” or “without.” No means no, right?
Then we ended the live with our weekly picks for Substacks to follow. I recommended Jacqueline Dooley, a memoirist who writes beautifully about living with grief, and Lawrence recommended Füsun Aydın, who he believes will be “capital f famous” as a memoirist and novelist one day for her lyrical prose.
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