Hey Friend,
It’s the beginning of a new year, and everywhere you look, someone is talking about goals, resets, and becoming a “better version” of yourself.
And while there’s nothing wrong with wanting a fresh start, I’ve been noticing something quieter and heavier underneath all of that both in myself and in so many other women:
“My body doesn’t work like it used to.”
I feel more tired. More stressed. Slower to recover. Things that used to work… just don’t anymore. And there’s this confusing, sometimes scary feeling of, Why does everything feel so much harder than it used to?
For me, this didn’t happen overnight. It was a gradual realization. Little things started feeling harder. My energy wasn’t the same. My resilience wasn’t the same. And no matter how much I tried to “get back on track,” it never quite worked the way I expected it to.
And honestly? The hardest part wasn’t even the physical changes.
It was the emotional part.
That quiet, nagging voice that says, Why can’t you just get it together? Why can’t you do what you used to do?
So I did what most of us do. I tried harder. I looked for better plans, better routines, better strategies. I told myself I just needed to be more disciplined.
But all that did was make me more tired and, frankly, frustrated.
At some point, I had to admit something that was both uncomfortable and incredibly freeing:
It wasn’t that I was doing everything wrong.My body has changed and I was still trying to live like it hadn’t.
You can’t use a 35-year-old operating system in a 50-year-old body.
Midlife is a real physiological and nervous system shift. Hormones change. Stress load changes. Your body’s tolerance and recovery change. And yet most of us keep trying to solve this season of life with the same old “try harder” mindset.
This isn’t a willpower problem.It’s not a motivation problem.And it’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because the rules have changed.
Over the past year, I’ve been doing a lot of exploring in my work and on this podcast. If you’ve been here a while, you’ve probably noticed that I’ve had a wide range of conversations and guests. That was part of my own process of searching and refining.
What’s become really clear to me is this:
I’m not interested in living in the abstract. I’m not interested in ideas that sound good but don’t actually help you live in your body and your real life.
I care about grounded, practical, body-based support.
I care about what actually helps women feel better in their energy, their health, and their day-to-day lives.
That’s the direction I’m taking this work and this podcast.
Less forcing.Less fixing.More listening to the body.More understanding of how your energy and nervous system actually work.
If you’ve been feeling like you don’t recognize your body anymore… you’re not alone.
We’re not failing.We’re not behind.And we’re not broken.
We don’t need to fix ourselves. We need a different approach.
I talk about all of this more personally in this week’s podcast episode, and I hope it feels like someone finally put words to something you’ve been carrying quietly.
xo,Jenny
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