In this conversation we approach the topic of Informed Consent — the historical lack of it in the medical system, and how we can show up to IC with awareness, empowerment, curiosity, and humility.
Informed Consent is defined as: ‘a communication process between the clinician and the patient.’
Our definition may look a little more like: ‘a continuous informed and education-based dialogue between practitioner & patient where questions are encouraged and “I don’t know’s” are welcomed by all parties involved.’
We hold a prayer to normalize conversations rooted in curiosity, humility, and grace.
To ask:Can we engage with one another without the weight of dogma, without the need to play god or hero?Can we meet the process of Informed Consent with a willingness to listen, learn, and co-create care that honours everyone involved?
This is the heart of what we explore today.
We also trace the historical roots of obstetrics, naming the often-erased lives and experiences of Anarcha Westcott, Lucy, and Betsey—three enslaved women who, 200 years ago, endured repeated surgeries without anesthesia. We examine the legacy of Dr. J. Marion Sims, known as the “father of modern gynecology,” and the ethical shadows his work continues to cast over reproductive care today.
Truly, we are only scratching the surface of what Informed Consent can be.But even in touching the edges of this conversation, we offer this important reminder:
You are allowed to question your care providers.You are allowed to participate in your own healing with discernment and voice.
What shifts with sacred dialogue and Informed Consent is not necessarily a specific desired outcome coming to fruition —
What changes is us and them just being in that conversational space together.
What transforms are the people involved, that show up to these conversations and actively choosing compassionate dialogue, openness, and understanding.
In reverence & love,
Emma & Sami
