The Gift of Need – Episode 1: Introduction
“Needs Are Not a Problem to Be Fixed”
Host: Jude DiMeglio Trang
Guest: Kelsey Rockhold / Pagefire Press
Episode Summary:
In this heartfelt and thought-provoking first episode, Jude sits down with Kelsey Rockhold to explore the big idea behind her newly completed book, The Gift of Need. Together, they unpack how our resistance to asking for help is often rooted in pride, cultural narratives of independence, and fear of being seen as weak. Kelsey shares how the book’s unique blend of research and personal storytelling drew her in, and the two reflect on how acknowledging our needs—rather than hiding them—can foster deeper relationships, trust, and vibrant community life.
This conversation ranges from vulnerability and resilience to motherhood, cultural comparisons, and the sacred cycle of giving and receiving help. It’s a rich start to a powerful series about embracing need as a gift, not a flaw.
What You'll Hear in This Episode:
· Why our culture often resists admitting need
· How pride and comparison keep us isolated
· The difference between being needy and having a need
· Kelsey’s story of finding community as a new mom
· How giving and receiving help builds trust and connection
· Practical examples of need meeting community—without shame
· The hope behind The Gift of Need and what’s ahead for this series
Join the Conversation:
We’d love to hear how you’ve seen the “gift of need” show up in your life. Have you ever had someone step in without being asked? Or learned to ask for help in a meaningful way? Share your story in the comments or leave a review. For articles related to this and other podcasts, head to my Substack page:
JudeDiMeglioTrang1.substack.com
To connect with Kelcey: https://pagefirepress.org
Music Credit: Gabe Kubanda / Damn Plans (Instrumental) © 2021 Kubanda Music
