In this episode, Drea explores the importance of knowing your identity and purpose before—or even while—entering into meaningful relationships. Using biblical wisdom (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14, 1 Corinthians 7:9) and current psychological research on values, meaning, and relational alignment, the episode offers practical counsel for staying true to yourself and your calling instead of getting lost.
* Key themes: purpose, identity, core values, relationship alignment, faith foundation
* Take-aways:
* Your first duty: fear God and keep His commandments (Ecclesiastes 12:13)
* Shared interests and values matter in relationships, but personal purpose comes first.
* Know yourself, grow yourself, so you can meet someone aligned — rather than adapting to someone misaligned.
* Don’t lose your sense of self in any relationship—married or not.
* Steps to take: Write out your values and goals. Then ask: Am I becoming the person I want to attract?
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