Not every doctrine carries the same weight, but every doctrine does shape a household.
In this episode of Altars & Ashes, the guys apply the framework of theological triage, popularized by Al Mohler, to the everyday work of Christian life. Drawing from Scripture, the historic creeds, and the pastoral wisdom of the church catholic Lower case ‘C’ catholic meaning truth in latin), we ask a crucial question: How do we teach our children what must never be compromised, what must be held with conviction, and what must be handled with charity?
Building on insights echoed by R. C. Sproul, and grounded in the ancient Christian maxim often attributed to Augustine(but historically traced to Rupertus Meldenius)—this episode walks through the classic principle:
“In essentials, unity; in non-essentials, liberty; in all things, charity.”
In this episode, we cover:
* Why theological triage matters for families who want unity without compromise and conviction without cruelty.
* First-level doctrines—the non-negotiables of the faith confessed by the church across time, summarized in the Apostles’ Creed and defended in passages like 1 Corinthians 15 and Galatians 1.
* Second-level doctrines—church-forming convictions that shape worship, leadership, and fellowship, held firmly yet charitably among true believers.
* Third-level doctrines—liberty issues where faithful Christians may disagree without division, guided by Romans 14 and pastoral humility.
* Household application—how fathers and mothers serve as primary theologians, catechizing their children and modeling discernment through daily life.
This conversation presses home a sober truth: discernment is not optional for Christian maturity. In an age of noise, outrage, and doctrinal confusion, our homes must become places where truth is loved, priorities are clear, and charity governs our disagreements.
If you want a household that stands firm on the gospel, knows when to contend and when to forbear, and trains children to think theologically rather than react emotionally—this episode is for you.
Scriptures featured: Titus 1:9; Romans 14; 1 Corinthians 15:3–4; Galatians 1:8–9; Ephesians 4:3–5; Deuteronomy 6:6–7; Hebrews 5:14; Colossians 4:6
Altars & Ashes exists to help Christian households recover clarity, courage, and charity
—until all Christ’s enemies are made His footstool.
