Everybody Gets Hurt with Excuses🤕
Excuses!📋 Probably my favorite and least-favorite word of all time, we have a hate-love relationship.🙂 Excuses are a slippery slope, and they often come in packs and pairs.🛝. ( plus Happy Holidays🎄🎁♥️)
We’re touching on….
* how excuses often soundreasonable📌
* or sounds like something from a movie, or a story you’ve already heard before 📺
* how excuses make youdo the work, while some else does nothing😴
* how excuses help others break our boundaries😤
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It’s Always "They Don’t Have a Job, a Car” or “They’re Going Through a Hard Time”…⏳
Excuses for poor behavior = more poor behavior😵
* it’s our data that someone is not showing up accountable📓
* we choose to hold people accountable
* we teach and tell people how to treat us🫂
* we move forward when we’re not currently in alignment with other’s values
* how you should continue on regardless of other’s excuses or your own fears
It’s healthy to grieve what we have lost, the dreams for a relationship and who we wish someone really is…💔 However, people are the sum of their actions or excuses😳 That’s why it’s healthy to create distance with people who make you do their labor and make excuses.🗺️
Much Love,
Ashley
