Today’s episode explores a ‘non-traditional philosophy of intimacy’ that challenges the idea of the “couple” as the primary unit of human connection. The author of the source article, Dr. Jaime Hoerricks, describes love as a persistent background state rather than a temporary emotion or a goal to be achieved. By moving away from conventional structures, Dr. Hoerricks suggests that affection for past partners remains a constant, quiet reality that exists alongside everyday tasks. This perspective shifts the focus from nostalgic loss to a continuous, “whole-to-part” way of relating to others. Ultimately, she argues that love can remain profoundly real without needing to be exclusive, current, or defined by societal expectations.
Here’s the link to the source article: https://open.substack.com/pub/autside/p/life-beyond-the-couple-love-as-ground
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