Today’s episode explores the concept of Gestalt love, a philosophy that rejects the traditional idea of hierarchical affection centred solely on human partners. The author of the source article, Dr. Jaime Hoerricks, argues that loving objects, animals, and locations should not be viewed as a substitute for human connection or a sign of personal deficiency. Instead, this perspective embraces distributed intimacy, where deep emotional bonds are spread across a wide field of experiences without competition. By challenging the notion of emotional scarcity, Dr. Hoerricks suggests that one’s capacity for affection is abundant and non-exclusive. Ultimately, she reframes unconventional attachments as a resilient and valid form of love rather than a compensatory mechanism.
Here’s the link to the source article: https://open.substack.com/pub/autside/p/distributed-intimacy-why-gestalt
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