Why It’s So Hard to Say "No" as Adults with Immigrant ParentsEpisode 5: Your Values or Your Family's? The Repay Cycle™ Part 2 of 3Are you constantly giving, helping, and sacrificing—yet still feel guilty or that you're not doing enough? You’re not alone. In this episode, we go deeper into the Repay Cycle™ and explore why these emotional patterns run so deep for adults with immigrant parents.We talk about:- The impact of parentification (when you were the “responsible one” way too early)- What happens when we don’t understand why we keep saying yes- The pressure of navigating two cultures and conflicting expectations- How to identify your own values—separate from what you were told to wantPlus, I’ll walk you through a visual tool to help you figure out what you truly want vs. what your family expects from you. If you’ve ever felt torn, overwhelmed, or stuck in a loop of obligation, this is for you.📥 Want the visual? Grab the visual here → https://heyallisonly.myflodesk.com/values🎧 Listen now and take one step closer to clarity, confidence, and self-trust.Episode Timeline:00:00 Recap of The Repay Cycle™ (Part 1)01:14 Understanding The Repay Cycle™02:00 What’s Parentification Got to Do with It?03:37 Balancing Cultural Expectations06:52 Identifying Personal Values09:54 Resource for youShow notes and more at: https://heyallisonly.com/podcast/5____Free Resources:The Repay Cycle Summary and PDF: https://heyallisonly.myflodesk.com/repaySign up for Adults with Immigrant Parents Email Community: https://heyallisonly.myflodesk.com/email3 Easy Ways to Tackle Your Negative Self Talk: https://heyallisonly.myflodesk.com/startGet my Free Quickstart Guide to Help You Help Your Loved Ones: https://heyallisonly.myflodesk.com/resource
