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In another great episode of the Postgame, Matt and I dive deep into the concept of integrated leadership and what it means to lead in a way that reflects collaboration, authenticity, and purpose. Whether you're navigating leadership in your family, business, or community, this episode provides a framework to shift from outdated, competitive leadership models to a new paradigm grounded in self-awareness, connection, and meaningful contribution.

The conversation unfolds with powerful reflections on personal growth, letting go of toxic patterns, and stepping into a greater purpose. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What it means for you to embody The New Paradigm of Leadership—leading with collaboration, purpose, and abundance, rather than competition and scarcity.
• The three phases of stepping into authentic leadership: Severance, Initiation, and Integration, and how you can apply them to your personal and professional growth.
• Why leadership begins within and how developing self-awareness and inner alignment will help you lead more effectively.
• How to break free from limiting environments and echo chambers, to open up new possibilities for growth and leadership.
• The transformational power of participating in men’s work and sitting in a circle with other men for accountability and support.
• Practical tools and practices you can use to align your actions with your purpose while being supported by a tribe of like-minded men.

This episode is all about Integrated Leadership! Please be sure to tag me @garethpickering on Instagram and share this episode with your community to spread the word if you or someone you know has benefited from this content! I love to hear about all your experiences. Also, be sure to leave a review on iTunes in order to receive a free meditation to reclaim your power. Just screenshot it before submitting it and email it to my team at studio@fatherssonsbrothers.com, and I will see you in the next episode.

If you enjoyed this episode, make sure you also check out #32 Mastering manifestation to create your dream life, with Matt Dahse

The Men’s Leadership Retreat

March 24–29, 2025 | Lake Atitlán, Guatemala

What got you here won’t get you there.

You've built success, but something still feels missing. You’ve checked all the boxes - career, family, wealth, but deep down you know there’s another level waiting for you.

This is your chance to step away from the noise, reflect, and recalibrate your leadership and purpose in an environment designed for deep transformation.

This Retreat is for Men Who:

• Have already achieved career or financial success but feel a deeper calling.
• Are ready to release outdated identities and patterns that no longer serve them.
• Want to lead with more clarity, confidence, and impact.
• Feel stuck in the "what’s next?" phase of life and need a breakthrough.
• Are looking for a powerful community of mission-driven men to hold them accountable.

What You’ll Experience:

• A 5-day immersive experience designed to help you strip away the distractions of daily life.
• Guided initiations & transformational rituals that help you redefine your leadership.
• Sacred San Pedro plant medicine ceremony to help you break through mental and emotional blocks.
• Reflection, mentorship, and support from a powerful brotherhood.
• Luxurious accommodations with breathtaking views of Lake Atitlán.
• A clear roadmap for integrating your insights back into your life, work, and relationships.

You Won’t Leave the Same Man.

Limited Spaces - only 10 spots available.
This is an intimate and high-impact retreat with only a handful of men.

If you feel the pull, don’t wait. Secure your spot now before we fill up:
https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/retreat

This is your moment. Will you answer the call?

The King’s Circle: A Dojo for Integrated Leaders.

“We’re magnificent, and we’re broken” - Tom Hirons.

An integrated leader recognises that we all have inner work to do. So, these new-paradigm leaders seek out people, processes, and places that support them in recognising and integrating their blind spots.

Each month, Fathers Sons Brothers host the King's Circle, a two-hour transformational leadership training experience. It’s a men-only space where visionaries gather to learn tools and frameworks that make them better communicators and more integrated leaders.

 When you regularly invest in this type of training: 

• You gain access to a space where men from all over the world support and encourage you to show up at your best.
• You get clear on what you came here to do. You reconnect with your mission.
• You recognise where you’re leaking energy, and you reclaim that power to allocate towards serving your mission.
• You develop more trust in yourself, and this improvement is reflected in all your relationships. 
• You feel inspired and excited about our brave new world, as you connect deeper with the other Integrated Leaders through the King’s Circle.

All growth after puberty is optional and the men who attend our circle have a growth mindset like you. 

We support each other in becoming the new paradigm of courageous leaders we've been waiting for.

Secure your free seat in The King’s Circle here: https://www.fatherssonsbrothers.com/kings-circle

About your hosts:

Gareth Pickering is an artist and thought leader. His inspiration is to create spaces for men to have open and honest conversations that shift their mindset and live life to the fullest. He’s a human connection specialist who guides others to level up with their lives through “relationships”. Relationships are a rocket ship for personal development. Gareth provides the tools and maps to fly and land your rocket safely.

Connect with him on: 

Website, Instagram, Linkedin, X, Facebook

Matt Dhase is a father and conscious creator, designing pathways for men to follow, to unlock their potential and step into their power.