In this thought-provoking episode of The Mindful CEO, Chris and Aaron explore the hidden power—and hidden cost—of living “in order to.” From the cultural addiction to productivity to the internalized need for justification, they unpack how this subtle phrase can quietly run the show, even when we think we're being intentional. What happens when we drop the agenda behind our actions? Is it possible to create and serve without a payoff? If you’ve ever found yourself chasing impact, validation, or even joy with a hidden “so that” attached, this episode is a must-listen.
Resources & Links:
Learn more about How to Live a Grateful Life in a Fucked Up World → https://thegratefulbreath.com/
Learn more about From Hustle to Flow: Sell more by stressing less → https://www.therealtorsedge.com/
00:00 – Opening Riff: Noticing the phrase “in order to” and its grip
06:20 – The Productivity Drug: Culture’s obsession with doing for a reason
13:45 – Mic Drop Insight: “What if we just let it be enough?”
20:05 – Coaching Real Talk: When 'impact' becomes another ego strategy
27:30 – The Worthiness Loop: Justifying existence through output
33:50 – Parenting, Performance, and Proving
39:10 – Choosing to Create Without Conditions
46:15 – Final Reflections and Embodied Alternatives
